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"Parents located in the northern part of London is looking for an remarkable and qualified instructor to support their smallest child on his first steps to becoming an British gentleman."

Looking at this post, you might naturally overlook the term "first-steps" as just an expression.

However, it might be the most significant element of this unusual employment listing, as it attempts to hire a mentor for a infant.

Hundreds of submissions have now been submitted since the anonymous family advertised their request for the £180,000 per year tutor, who has to be "a uniquely qualified person".

In recent few weeks, the advert has received interest across the news, with numerous questioning why?

Innovative Idea

A tutoring expert, chief executive of an education consultancy, which is helping the family in their search, stated that in spite of early skepticism, he viewed the concept "forward-looking", and "progressive".

When he spoke with the family, he noted they recognized the unconventional character of their request, and how early in age their son is.

But, they explained that they "preferred not to postpone any longer" to get a tutor, as they had postponed until their firstborn was five, and by that stage "cultural influence had by then become established".

What exactly did the family mean by "cultural leaning"?

It's "everything", the expert responded. "The way you eat, the way you speak".

He said the firstborn had picked up "really subtle, body language" from the family, and had assumed their cultural ways. The family told Adam they did not want the same situation to happen again with their infant.

The strategy: To hire a English tutor, who should speak with Received Pronunciation, to shape the baby right from the beginning.

Osmotic Learning

"Much of the learning at the beginning here is rather osmotic," said Adam.

It's via this osmosis that the family are expecting the child will acquire the English characteristics they wish to instil.

The consultant noted the tutor must be somebody who attended "the right kinds of schools – comparable categories of schools as the family plan to send their son to".

"The tutor just has to be the suitable individual, they'll be carrying out things they may not realize they're doing, just naturally," he added.

Expense Not a Factor

The family told Adam the successful candidate should preferably also have familiarity of or passion in horse riding, alpine skiing, artistic pursuits and music so as to influence the child in a diverse set of passions.

Furthermore though, he explained the family hoped the tutor to sign up the child on a selection of courses so the child would be "equestrian training and learning an instrument by the time they are around three years old".

In the family's perspective, helping their son grow into a "British gentleman" will bring about success and create opportunities.

"For all the pros and cons of that, because it's certainly a status symbol," he comments.

However, despite all this guidance in "English culture", would the child absorb alleged cultural leaning from the international family he resides with anyway?

"Certainly", said the CEO. "The family realize this could fail, but they've just taken the perspective of, 'let's give it a go and we'll proceed as quickly as we can', because the cost of it is not relevant," he said.

Idealistic and Unrealistic

A number of in the education sector who have similar doubts.

Peter Cui, chief executive of an educational organization, who also offer personal educators, wrote that "the process of adopting dual cultures, or actually, discovering oneself, is something that must be lived into, not engineered."

The expert noted that he had moved from the Far East to the UK at the time of seven, and had been brought up experiencing and practicing dual heritages. He progressed to be educated at the University of Cambridge.

"The concept that one individual can serve as a representation of English culture, an individual who can in some way impart the characteristics of a English gentleman to a one-year-old child, seems to me optimistic and unrealistic," he wrote.

"In my experience, having a quintessentially British tutor from infancy will will not instantly achieve the result they desire.

"I wasn't provided with that kind of mentor, and however I have been privileged enough to enjoy numerous of the experiences they aspire for their son."

He stated: "The truth is, cultural identity cannot be imposed from the outside; it must be embraced, and it must be internally driven."

Purchasing UK Culture

Naturally, UK identity is something Adam hopes can be instructed – and sold.

"I believe the situation that the international society views us in this respect is something that we should be cherishing|valuing|appreciating